Caregiving across Generations

For any of a variety of reasons, it’s not so uncommon for families of multiple generations to live under a single roof. If you find yourself in a situation of needing to care for both your children and your parents at the same time, it’s likely that you are familiar with the considerable challenges. However, you should never think that you and your spouse need to carry the entire burden of caregiving on your own.

The most important thing is to keep communication open between generations. The elderly are mostly frustrated over being unable to take care of themselves, and this anger at their failing bodies tends to get channeled outwards as irritation towards everyone else.

Patiently communicating with your elderly loved ones goes a long way in easing their lives. Establishing a respectful and loving relationship between the elderly and your children is very beneficial, as the older generation has a lot of guidance to share and stories they’d love to tell.

Children should be made to understand the situation with their grandparents, as the occasional tantrum can be quite traumatic to a child who may translate a frustrated grandmother’s irritation to be their fault. If handled well, children are largely accepting and patient. Their company and availability to meet the elderly’s emotional needs are quite beneficial to your family life.

Don’t overburden yourself. Help is available should you need it. If you find yourself overwhelmed, there are professionals like Comfort Keepers who can lend a hand with Omaha senior living. Give us a call at 402-671-0448.